” Love is such a beautiful thing.”
I got that line from Bee Gees song, Too Much Heaven. And truly, nothing can be more heavenly than feeling how true love feels, the way it awakens your senses, the way it just makes your heart jump with joy and excitement and yearning.
But ironically, love can also be scary. It can be compared to an abyss that is filled with mystery. We won’t know unless we’re at it.
I am writing this now because lately, my heart had been clouded with emotions. When you activate your mind, sometimes, the heart is just too strong and forceful you can’t shun it. It’s easy for elder people to say we have to guard our hearts and take care of it. But in a different scenario, how can we really guard our heart especially if the current key to it is the same person that could shatter it? Is there a way out?
I have a purpose. I believe I should just let my thoughts out and let it run free to touch others’ lives. That through this simple way, I could somehow give them clarity.
I’m writing this purposely for women alike, whose hearts have been either previously or currently bothered by questions that impacts to the core. The conflict arises when you get caught up in trying to figure out if a man loves you, you can no longer be present in the relationship. Instead of connecting, you are stuck in your own worried thoughts, and those thoughts produce fears or curiosity that ultimately block you from getting the love you want — and so deserve.
Does he really love you? Here are 15 Definite Signs That a Man Truly Loves You:
He turns his entire life around to become a better man and person.
He admits and takes responsibility when he’s wrong and do what’s necessary to correct it.
He makes it right and moves forward to live a better and clean lifestyle.
He treats you like you’re the only woman for him and that he’s happy that you are.
He makes you feel needed, wanted, desired, beautiful, amazing, special, loved and cared about.
He makes you feel good about being yourself and builds you up so that it takes away all your insecurities and self-consciousness.
He gets you to see, think and believe that you’re all the wonderful things in your mind and in your heart.
He makes sure you know and feel in your heart that you’re perfect in his eyes (and always will be), that you feel you’re right for him, that you two are meant to be and no one else out there is lucky enough to have what you two have.
He assures you that no one could ever love him as much as you do.
He makes you feel appreciated and shows he’s grateful and blessed that you’re in his life.
He shows you that no other woman could ever make him feel that happy, loved and lucky to be alive.
He respects you and honors your decisions.
He makes you his priority.
He makes you a better person each and every day.
He loves and respects your family like his own.