You are having a romantic date night with your husband, wife, girlfriend, or boyfriend. You reminisce on the good old times you both had while cuddling and hugging each other. And then, suddenly, your partner looks right into your eyes and questions, “why do you love me?”
As an answer, you may say that “I love you, and that’s all.” But hey, that’s not all!
We don’t like to admit it, but it is true that in our relationships, we need at least some sort of reassurance from time to time. And that is why we love to hear from our partners the reasons why they love us. It makes us feel secure and all the more loved.
Yes, I know love is a spontaneous feeling, and explaining why you love your partner so much can be a bit difficult. But you HAVE to do it!
There must be something unique and special about your partner that makes them stand out from all the other people you have known.
So, what is it? It is their hair, face, or smile? Is it how they cheer you up every time you feel low?
Whatever it is, you got to let your partner know!
In this post, I have come up with some “reasons why I love you” list – things that I find special about my partner. And you are more than welcome to take inspiration from it!
List of Reasons Why I Love You
Have you heard the saying, “action speaks louder than words”? That is true in the case of love too. So, what are the reasons to love your partner?
Check this list out!
- I love You Because You Always Push Me for the Best
This is SO true! When you love a person, and they love you back, both of you change each other’s habits, at least to some extent. You put selfishness aside and try to be a better person for the sake of your love.
- You Make Me Feel Secure
You cannot deny the fact that you don’t always feel secure in this world. I’m not saying that there is nothing good in this world because there are truly some amazing things here. But then, the safety issue is still there, especially if you are a woman. So, it is amazing when your partner can make you feel safe and secure. And don’t let them go away!
- You Have an Amazing Personality
When you love someone, it means that you love their flaws along with their strengths. And when you love their personality, it could mean anything from their assertiveness and determination to attitude and calm nature.
- Your Sense of Humor is Great
You might have heard it several times, but let me tell you again. Be with a person who can make you laugh. Yes, a sense of humor is really important in your relationship. The person you love should be able to make you laugh even when you are having a bad day. And when you have that kind of partner, you are REALLY lucky, I must say!
- Your Random Romantic Texts Make Me Happy
Does your partner keep on sending you romantic texts throughout the day? Well, that is enough to keep you going and keep the love in your relationship alive. Their efforts to make your face glow every time they send you a text are truly a reason to love them more!
- You are Extremely Attractive
When you tell your partner that they are hot and that makes you want them more, they are sure to have a tingling sensation down there! You know what I mean, right? You can even tell them how beautiful their smile, lips, or eyes are. Trust me, when they hear it, they are going to blush for sure!
- You are Loyal to Me
Loyalty is something that makes your relationship crispy, sweet, and fantastic. When people these days be in a relationship just to pass their time or fulfill their physical needs, it is a blessing if you have a loyal partner. And it is a BIG reason to love your partner and cling to them!
- You Always Respect My Limits
Does your partner respect you for the person you are? You are REALLY lucky ! In relationships, you can break the rules sometimes but never do it when it comes to limits. You need to respect each other’s limits, and when you do that, your love becomes limitless.
- I See My Dream Partner in You
Yes, you ARE the one for me! Is this what you think about your partner? Congratulations, I can see marriage in your near future!
- You Make Me Feel Like the Most Important Person in This Whole World
If your partner values you the most, takes care of your likes and dislikes, and makes you feel that you are the reason for their happiness, I can assume how happy of a relationship you are in! After all, we all want to feel important, isn’t it? Now tell this to your partner to see a cute and happy smile on their face.
- Even When You are Angry, You are Still Adorable
When we are angry, our face looks somewhat squeezed. But do you find your partner cute even then? So sweet! This can make your bond stronger. After all, anger comes and goes, but love stays forever.
- You are Always There for Me
A year has 365 days, and not all days are the same. You don’t have the same mood or circumstances every single day. And if your partner is there with you on your worst days, and if he/she got your back when you are feeling low, then that is a beautiful relationship!
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- You Have a Cute Attitude
Different people have different attitudes. While some have a charming attitude, some have a bad attitude. If your partner has a cute attitude and you love it, then there is nothing better!
- You Give Me Suggestions That are Always Perfect
Do you always turn to your partner whenever you are in a difficult situation and need suggestions? This is indeed a good reason to love your partner. They give you the perfect guidance whenever you need it.
- You Always Support Me no Matter What
A supportive partner is not something that every couple has. You can come across many couples who say that they love each other, but they are not supportive of what their partner does. When you are in a healthy relationship, support does matter. And when you get a partner who supports you in whatever you do, you love them even more.
- You are Honest
When your partner is honest, your relationship becomes transparent and happy. It becomes complicated when you start lying to each other. Now that you have got an honest partner hold them tight! After all, honesty is something that is missing in most relationships these days.
- You Give Me The Best Hugs
Hugs from your loved one are no doubt the best therapy for your soul. Do you know that when you hug your lover for at least 30 seconds, it releases a feel-good hormone? It’s time for some more lovey-dovey hugs!
- I Love How Adventurous You are
Do you love the adventurous spirit of your partner? Do you like how they travel so much? Do you like how they take you to new and offbeat places to hike? It’s time to let them know how you appreciate their efforts and their nature so much!
- I Love How You Kiss Me
Kissing is one of the most intimate forms of expressing love for one another. Does your partner kiss you often? Or do they never miss an opportunity to kiss you? I can understand how loving you feel! And now that you feel so happy, let your partner know how you love the way they kiss you. Trust me, they will kiss you even more!
- You Always Pay Attention to hat I Say
Everyone wants to be listened to. If you talk to someone and they just nod without even listening to what you say, it can be irritating. But you got a partner who listens to you, and that is great. So appreciate the loving nature of your partner by letting them know how much you love them because of this.
- I Love How Romantic You Are
Does your partner often do romantic things for you that you generally get to see in movies or TV dramas? Do they send you flowers and lovely notes every other day? You got a romantic partner! Tell them how you love to romance with them and see how it makes them smile.
- I Love How You Motivate Me
There may be days when we don’t feel like doing anything or going to work. That is the time when we need some motivation to keep things going. And if your partner does that job for you, then I must say; you have got a great partner!
- I Love How You Push Me to Achieve My Goals
Now, we all have some goals in life. Don’t you agree? While some of us work hard to achieve that goal, some of us sit idle waiting for the right time. Does your partner always support, motivate, and push you to go closer to your goals? Let them know how blessed you feel because of them.
- I Love How We Put Aside Our Differences and Sort Things Out
There’s no denying the fact that we all are different. And we have different opinions. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you both have to have similar opinions. But when you rise above all odds by respecting each other’s opinions and sorting things out in the end just to be with the person you love, it is truly magical. So, let your partner know how you love your equation.
- I Love How We can’t Stay Apart from Each Other Even After Fights
Every couple argues at some time or the other. And it is a fact. After all, we all are different, and our thought process differs. But love is when you can’t stay away from each other even after an argument. Tell this to your partner!
- I Love How I can Talk to You about Anything and Everything
Now, this is really important. Things get much easier when your partner is your best friend. You can share all your feelings and thoughts without having the fear that your partner will judge you. Thank your partner for that!
- I Love How You Make Time for Me Even When You are Busy with Work
In order to have a good lifestyle, we need to work, right? This can keep you really busy on some days. But when you tell your partner that you need them or want them by your side at that time, they go that extra mile to make some time out from their busy schedule just to be with you. That is amazing!
- You Look At Me Like I’m the Prettiest Girl or the Most Handsome Guy (Whichever is Applicable) in this World
We all want to look good, at least in front of the person we love. And when your partner stares at you like you are the most beautiful person in this whole world, your heart does skip a beat, isn’t it?
- When You are With Me, the People Around Me Become Invisible to You
This happens when a person is head-over-heels in love with the other person. I can relate to this because this is exactly how my boyfriend was when we were dating. Even when we were with our common friends, he used to look at me and talk to me as if there was no one else – he could see only me! We are married now, which is one of the many reasons I love him so much.
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- You are the Only Person Who can Calm Me When I’m Anxious
When you are scared or anxious for some reason, you need someone whom you can hug and feel secure. In your case, is that person your partner? Great! Now, let them know how they can calm you down. They will feel happy.
- You Know Exactly How to Make Me Smile
Does hearing from your partner bring a big goofy smile to your face? I know this feeling. It is amazing! Now tell them how you love them because of this and give them a reason to smile too.
- I’m the Happiest When I’m with You
Do you feel the happiest when you are with your partner? This means they make you happy with their love and affection towards you. Let your partner know this to make them blush.
Do you want to add some more to this list of reasons why I love you? Let me know in the comments!
Hey there, Martha here, a full-time mom of two, currently trying to bring a small impact in everyone’s life whom I can reach through The Queen Momma. I usually write on topics related to parenting, pregnancy and motherhood. Having gone through a few rocky relationships myself, I consider myself somewhat of an “expert” on topics related to dating and relationships.
I formerly worked at Special Needs Network Inc and BrightStar Care of Beverly Hills as a head manager. I have a passion for assisting organizations and individuals in achieving their objectives and have had the opportunity to do so throughout my professional career. At present, writing for The Queen Momma is a great addition to my professional career.